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Title: It’s Not You–It’s Me.
Author : Sara Potter
Release Date : January 22, 2019
Genre: Self-Improvement,Books,Health, Mind & Body,
Pages : * pages
Size : 146 KB

Description

I got out of a six year relationship just shy of my 30th birthday. It lacked closure and answers, and while most of my friends were getting married and having babies, I felt…lost. I was single for the first time since I was 23. I knew it was for the best, but it was still a lot to process. It took a little while for me to realize that the whole “older and wiser” thing definitely applies to dating and relationships. During this time in my life, although I felt lost, I never let self-pity creep in. I was frustrated, confused, and sad, but I knew I could find clarity if I was brave enough to really look for it.

I knew I had to be good and ready to take a look in the rear view mirror if I wanted to gain any real insight. It took me about six months to get to a point where I felt like I could accept that the relationship I’d put so much effort into was only meant to be a chapter; to realize that my next relationship could be a hundred times better if I was willing to put in that same effort on my own self-reflection. Spoiler alert: I was right.

“It’s Not You—It’s Me.” is ultimately a year’s worth of personal growth on paper. It is a recollection of my thoughts and perspectives and how they evolved as I got to know myself on a deeper level and eventually found the right partner. I forced myself to look through a sharper lens and discovered details, priorities and attributes that relate to myself and the relationships I have with others that I had previously overlooked. My experience is told in three parts, and intended to be a quick read; a story that resonates with you and provides a framework for self-evaluation and discovery which I hope will help you strengthen relationships that matter, and let go of ones that don't.

If you’re single, I hope you’ll read along and feel like you stumbled across the diary of a good friend—knowing that being single does not mean being alone, and that it could be the perfect time to get reacquainted with yourself. And if you’re in a happy relationship and you read my story anyway, I hope my self-reflection will inspire you to do the same. The moment when I felt like I discovered the most basic (yet, seemingly disregarded) meaning of the phrase “it’s not you—it’s me” was about so much more than an old relationship. It was empowering and thought provoking and exactly what I needed. And that, in itself, felt worth sharing.